Whether from my own personal experiences with friends and strangers, or from what I'm learning of Körper-Therapie from the likes of Wilhelm Reich and Bernd Senf, I have become convinced that being present and sharing intimate, physical contact — be it sexual or not — is essential to a person's emotional, psychological, sexual and even physical health. And being inspired by what I've seen and heard from a beloved and a Lebensgefährte who started working as an escort, herself, a few months ago, I guess I wanted to put this — and myself — out there, too.
With that out of the way, I've been told I'm a caring friend, a very open person, funny (in the good kind of way), sensual, and a good reader of people’s emotions and physical cues. And another thing that seems to keep coming up is that, whether it's because I love to share who I am and make myself vulnerable, or because I tend to accept and love people just as they are, I make it really easy for people to 'let go' and open up to me, too...
I'm not a huge fan of labels — especially when applied to others, but also when they artificially constrain us. To me, relationships should be honest and fluid, and should have the freedom to develop and change according to what everyone involved wants and is comfortable with. This might mean that friendships become closer and/or intimate, that creative energies spill over into physical intimacy and passion, or that they might become platonic again; or it might mean that people simply remain friends or acquaintances.
I definitely like learning more about the people I connect with (and enjoying their company more generally), but I also know, from experience, that ephemeral conversations and encounters — even random chats while wandering through the city and/or over a gin or two — can be very intense and very beautiful; indeed, while I think that being with people you love in the ‘conventional’ sense can be very beautiful, I've had some very emotionally, physically and sexually intense, intimate and fun times with both friends and strangers — socially, one-on-one, and in group settings — and I think that all kinds and depths of relationships, from new acquaintances to friends to lovers can be really beautiful to explore. And with all the love and intimacy I am lucky enough to have in my life, how could I not want to share some of that energy, too?
So, perhaps you should message me if the above resonated with you, and if you're at least interested in meeting and exploring the kinds of connections I described above. And yes, of course, I am absolutely open to things becoming sexual (nach Reich and my own experiences, I also believe that not only are orgasms really enjoyable, but the ability to let go and experience them without shame or guilt is really important, too), but I think that there are a lot of people out there who don't got even the holding, snuggling, and maybe a bit of kissing and touching that they need, and I would be more than happy to start — and stick — with whatever you might need, and whatever you are comfortable with. (I've also been told that I live by the mottos 'alles kann, nichts muss', 'consent is sexy' and 'no expectations, no pressure')
(Und obwohl Englisch zu sprechen immer noch einfacher für mich ist, könnten wir auch versuchen, auf Englisch /und/ Deutsch zu reden, etwas dass scheint, viel öfters als nicht zu klappen.)
Bitte erwähne, dass du die Anzeige auf Intim.de gesehen hast.
